FATHER

આજે મેં એક પિતા વિષે મેલ વાંચ્યો. પિતા નું મહત્વ જીવન માં કેટલું છે. આ માટે કોઈ માપદંડ નથી પણ અનુભવનો વિષય છે. તમારા જીવન નું અસ્તિત્વ પિતા સિવાય શક્ય નથી. પિતા થી માતા ની સાબિતી છે. પિતા થી ઘર નું માન સનમાન છે. પિતા પોતોના બાળકો માટે શક્ય હોય તેટલું કરે છે. તેમના સારા ભવિષ્ય માટે અનેક પરિશ્રમ કરી ને તેમને ભણાવે છે. પોતાના ખર્ચા પર કપ મૂકી ને પોતાના બાળકો માટે જરૂરી વસ્તુ લાવી આપે છે.

બાળક અને પિતા વચ્ચે પણ એક લાગણી નો સબંધ હોય છે. પિતા ફક્ત કઠોર જ નથી હોતા તેમેને પણ એક હ્રદય હોય છે. જાતે પ્રેમ પ્રગટ કરી નથી સકતા માતા ની જેમ પણ લાગણી તો એટલીજ હોય છે.પિતા એક એવું પાત્ર છે જેના વિષે તમારી અભિવ્યક્તિ કદાચ ઓછી પડે.

પિતા થી બાળક ની ઓળખ બને છે. માં પ્રેમ આપે છે તો પિતા સલામતી આપે છે.

Child Education

Education, what is the meaning of education? And what are we teaching our next generation? Do we have any idea that the present education will lead our generation to the right path? There are many questions in my mind regarding the education. I am unable to discuss the same with someone as no one has time to discuss such topics and waste their time. They are ready to waste their generation but do not want to shape their generation. I have been seeing since long that there are many matters to be rectify in the education system. We only compare the education with the money generation system. We make the doctors to earn the money not to serve the patients. We generate the engineers to earn the money not to serve for the nation. Our ultimate goal of education is to earn only and to loot the country. However, the parents are paying extraordinary fees for their wards but the result is not good. They are just giving their nice place to stay and enjoy where they never get love of teacher, parents, grandparents, sisters, brothers and many more. They never understand the nature, the nature resources and use of the respected resources. However, still we take proud when the child takes degree for him/her self.

We are not able to provide the generation the plastic free, television free life. There is lots of noise pollution. Education starts from the age 2 to 3 but the result is zero. Never come to proper solution in the life. Always there is confusion in their mind. They have been given food from the school, which taken the right of the child to eat with the mother. They lose their right of conversation with the family members. All are unable to understand each other. The books are given in bulk and told to clear all the subjects with 100% accuracy. The scale of the school is feeling not the teaching manner. The higher the fee, better the school. We don’t know what will be the last result of such education. We are teaching that the man reach to the moon, but never teach the child that how the moon looks from the earth and what are there on the moon. The same way we teach them English language but don’t teach them the grammar and the construction of the language. Still the construction of the language is not clear one can never understand the matter. First you have to clear in your mother tang which makes you help to learn other language.

We have given them good class room but there are not play ground. They are sitting in one small class room where they have to share all the matter with some other. They never play in the free atmosphere. Let me be specific about the teacher. Mostly the teachers were from the respective town only, which are well known by the parents. They understand the plus and minus point of the children and treat them accordingly. The child never comes to know that they are given special treatment to hide their some points and to develop their some good points. They love to teacher. They always respect the teacher. Teachers are not just for fun in the teaching occupation. They are just not passing their time in the school.

12-2-2011

All individual are leader. All have their own understanding and skills to tackle the matter. There are many methods to solve one problem and which can be found from individual on different conditions and locations. However, we still understand and underestimate ourselves as narrow. All have leader’s quality. All are playing their role as father, mother, son, daughter, manager, sister, brother, boss, peon, poet and many more. However, still there is confusion in some mind and feelings of narrow. One must have to get confidence in his own first and faith in God or the work which he/she is doing. If, you perform your task well, the result will be well. All is well. It is like that, the thrown ball at wall come back to you in the speed that how you have thrown the same on the wall. There is always justice in the world. Its different chapter that we are not able to see or understand the same. The circumstances may lead us to fail to understand the matter.

The leader is those who can lead us by their way of work or by their speech or by their behavior or by their cloths or by their thoughts. There are many ways to find out the leaders. We cannot just to go on one point to find out the leader. The qualities of the leaders are , 1) can never give false commitment 2) can never leave the follower in their need 3) can never behave as a fraud in the society 4) can never advise, which he/she never going to adopt or follow.

The motto is not to follow the leader or their lecture which is not advisable to you. The many of the people from our society are so innocent and have many problems in routine life. They are caught instantly in such a fraud leaders. Let me share here one incident. One person says me that pay me Rs 1000 I will remove your problem from your life. How, the matter could be closed in Rs 1000, or which is the funda with them to clear your problem.

POWER

Do we have the power? Are those performing their best that has the power? Could we become the super power in the coming year? All the questions are common to all the Indian. However, we are free but we are not enjoying the same in full. All are in their own role. The people who bothering for the nations is a very small part. We just come to know there are many scandals in the country. We are not able to find the reason in our own country. The matter is escalated to the PM but there is no result. We do not have any policy. Our child is not asking the question that why the Indian economy is not becoming stronger than the American. Why always the American Dollar is stronger than the Indian Currency. When could we make the same the great one? Even our upper line and higher educated people are getting study from the foreign and are on good position but no one asking the same. We are just simply copying the matter. We are not super power in the diplomacy. We are not able to speak against the countries who threaten us frequently without any reason. We just try to discuss and solve the matter. The power we have, but we don’t know how to use it. We have very good force of young and experience people. But the uses of them are nil. Hardly some percentages have been used till date. We are still in the kingdom age. We observing in mostly all the fields, the family business, either that is politics or film or industry or education. These show that we are not giving freedom to our child to do some extra or some new. The same lead to them unwanted incidents.

The power we have may not be any of the country. We have water, power, wind, sea, desert, mountain, trees, rivers, lacks, history, math, literature, science, music, play, grounds, culture, religion, army, temperament, courage, mind and many more. I don’t know any of the country has all these qualities other than India. Still we are not able to become super power. We have one very bad and unrespectable thing is, we do not believe our self as Indian. We believe our selves as Gujarati, Marathi, and Bengali etc... Once we believe as an Indian, many of the matter will be solved by itself. The things are happened because we have been taught like that. Since, our child hood we have been taught that the English is very good language and tough to learn. While in real life the Sanskrit is tough to learn and has many of the books to learn in Sanskrit. We do not have common civil code. I don’t know why the same has been not adopted by any of the politics party? Why the same has been not resolved by any of the leader? Why the Kashmir matter is still pending? There is always way to resolve the matter, if, one decide to do so.

So, the power it self is not sufficient. There must be the instrument to store the same and must have the ideas to use the same. The power itself is very strong entity, if, the said has been not used in proper way the said can be destroyed the user as well supplier. It is better to learn from now to utilize the same and in proper way. The power makes its own way to move. If, we will not use, the same will be find some other way to move and which may harm and not in our favor. The Lord Krishna was the power in Mahabharata, where Arjuna has use the same and won the battle. The same was not taken by and used by Duryodhana, who left their lives.

I feel the teaching must be in common language. That must be in National Language. There must be no column of the cast in any of the government form. The government has to take care equally for all the people. There must be unique identity code for all Indian. The tax must be deducted directly and accurately by all. The computerized system must be adopted. There must be common teaching and common books up to certain standard which leads to parents and student at ease.

These all are my own views, my intense is not to heart anyone by all this writing. I feel sorry if I may had heart anybody for the same.